Other studies have also shown that premarital education is associated with higher levels of satisfaction and commitment in marriage, lower levels of conflict, and also reduced odds of divorce.

In premarital counseling with Caroline, you will:

  • Learn the typical cycle of relationships
  • Understand your defensive and exit behaviors (and the related neurobiology)
  • Explore the differences and similarities between you and your partner
  • Discover the intentional practices of a conscious relationship
  • Learn the Imago Dialogue as a tool for connection and conflict-resolution
  • Explore important topics like intimacy, chores, family, and finances
  • Create a relationship vision
  • I also encourage premarital couples to complete a rich online assessment called SYMBIS (Save Your Marriage Before It Starts), which gives couples a personalized roadmap, strategies, and rich insights into themselves and their marriage.

    SYMBIS is the most widely used pre-marriage system in existence. Created by husband-and-wife team Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, who are #1 New York Times best-selling authors of the award winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts, the SYMBIS assessment is based on their 25 years of research about pre-marriage education.

    This tool helps couples assess their:

  • Individual and relational wellbeing
  • Social support systems
  • Attitudes around finances
  • Individual strengths and weaknesses
  • Communication skills, especially in conflict
  • Beliefs about love and intimacy
  • Couples take the assessment online at home separately. It takes about 30 minutes. Then, in sessions with Caroline, they review the results of their personalized 15-page report together. The assessment costs $35 per couple.

    Though the SYMBIS is primarily designed for engaged and newlywed couples, many married couples at various stages find the results to be extremely helpful.

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